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Brides: Rhea Almeida and Jaime Ford. Photo: 49thestudio

Pride In Every Spritz: 12+ Gender-Neutral Perfumes We Love 

Once upon a time, perfume aisles wanted us to pick a side. Floral and fruity for her, woody and smoky for him. Yet, scent never belonged to an identity. Across eras, some of the most loved perfume ingredients were used across genders, cultures and generations. Thankfully, history has repeated itself with gender-neutral fragrances. Today’s genderless perfumes are all about wearing what you love, regardless of the label on the bottle. After all, can a spritz of bergamot, sandalwood or rose really tell who should be wearing it?  

These fragrances blur traditional boundaries. They blend notes associated with masculine and feminine scents, creating compositions that feel modern, expressive and impossible to box in. Better still, they’re made for sharing. One bottle, two nightstands. Or one bathroom shelf and zero arguments over whose perfume it is. 

As conversations around identity continue to evolve, the world of scent is becoming a little more inclusive, a little more playful and a lot more interesting. In the spirit of Pride Month, we’re celebrating fragrances that embrace individuality, self-expression and the joy of wearing whatever smells like you. Here’s our list of favourite gender-neutral perfumes that deserve a spot in every shared fragrance wardrobe

Maison Crivelli Musc Nurāsana Extrait de Parfum

If understated is your middle name, then Musc Nurāsana is your perfect match. The fragrance opens with a burst of bergamot, ginger and cardamom before unfolding into velvety rose and smoky frankincense. As it settles, creamy musk, fir balsam and tonka bean create a soft, cocooning warmth. The contrast between freshness, florals and woods makes it effortlessly genderless and equally compelling on anyone who wears it. This is a scent for the modern romantic. 

Maison Crivelli Musc Nurāsana Extrait de Parfum 100ml: £360; Buy It Here 

Francis Kurkdjian Gentle Fluidity Silver Edition Eau De Parfum 

Think of Gentle Fluidity Silver as the olfactory equivalent of a perfectly tailored white shirt: crisp, versatile and impossible to fault. Juniper berries and nutmeg bring a crisp, aromatic freshness at the start, while coriander adds an unexpected spark. As it evolves, musks, amber woods and vanilla create a smooth, polished finish that feels clean rather than sweet. The beauty of this fragrance lies in its balance, making it a natural choice for anyone who gravitates towards scents free from gender stereotypes. This is for the effortless minimalist.

Francis Kurkdjian Gentle Fluidity Silver Edition 70ml: £205; Buy It Here

Roja London Isola Blu Parfum

If your dream holiday involves a linen wardrobe, a yacht and nowhere to be in a hurry, Isola Blu is your scent. Bright bergamot, lime and mandarin open with a burst of Mediterranean sunshine before aromatic herbs, creamy woods and soft musks take over. Fresh yet undeniably sophisticated, it feels equally at home at a summer wedding as it does on a candlelit date night by the sea. This is for the charismatic adventurer. 

Roja London Isola Blu 50ml: £385; Buy It Here

Jo Malone London Velvety Butternut Cologne

Love long countryside walks and weekends spent unplugged? Then Velvety Butternut is a breath of fresh air. Inspired by the earthy comfort of a kitchen garden, it pairs roasted butternut squash with warm cedarwood and soft, velvety woods to create a scent that feels unexpectedly comforting. There’s a quiet elegance to its simplicity, making it an effortless gender-neutral choice. Perfect for crisp autumn afternoons or cosy dinner dates, this is for the nature lover. 

Jo Malone London Velvety Butternut Cologne 30ml: £59; Buy It Here

Dior Bois d’Argent Esprit de Parfum

If old-world glamour and modern minimalism had a perfectly dressed child, it would be Bois d’Argent Esprit de Parfum. Opening with luminous iris and frankincense, it melts into honeyed warmth, resinous woods and sensual amber notes. Rich yet refined, it doesn’t lean on masculine or feminine, making it an effortless gender-neutral choice. Ideal for black-tie evenings or any occasion that calls for quiet luxury. This is for the sophisticated aesthete, who is cultured, discerning and drawn to timeless beauty.

Dior Bois d’Argent Esprit de Parfum 80ml: £380; Buy It Here

Byredo Alto Astral Eau De Parfum 

Some people collect souvenirs; others collect stories. Alto Astral is made for the latter. Bright citrus notes and aromatic spices make a vibrant first impression before the fragrance deepens into smoky woods, incense and warm amber. The result is mysterious yet uplifting, striking a balance that feels refreshingly free of gender conventions. Ideal for rooftop parties, creative gatherings or spontaneous weekends away, this is a scent for the modern explorer who is always searching for the extraordinary in the everyday. 

Byredo Alto Astral 100ml: £225; Buy It Here 

Maison Margiela Never-Ending Summer Eau de Toilette

If “out of office” is your favourite phrase, Never-Ending Summer is your scent. Bursting with vibrant citrus, bitter orange and spicy pepper, it captures the energy of sun-drenched afternoons on the Amalfi Coast. As it settles, earthy vetiver adds depth. Bright, easy-going and effortlessly genderless, it’s perfect for beach outings, weekend getaways or simply bringing some sunshine to an ordinary day. This is for the eternal optimist, who finds joy wherever they go. 

Maison Margiela Never-Ending Summer EDT 100ml: £125; Buy It Here

Diptyque Orpheon Eau De Parfum 

If your ideal night starts with “just one drink” and ends with the best stories of the week, Orphéon is your scent. Inspired by a legendary Parisian jazz bar, it blends sparkling juniper berry with powdery jasmine, warm cedarwood and smooth tonka bean. The result is clean yet comforting, sophisticated yet approachable—exactly the kind of balance that makes it effortlessly genderless. Perfect for dinner parties, gallery openings or date nights, this is for the social sophisticate: charming, cultured and always the person everyone wants to sit next to. 

Diptyque Orpheon Eau de Parfum 75ml: £170; Buy It Here

Ex Nihilo Paris Bois D’Hiver Eau De Parfum 

Think of Bois d’Hiver as a warm hug from the best-dressed person you know. Delicate pink pepper and cardamom give way to powdery heliotrope, creamy woods and soft musk, creating a scent that feels warm, elegant and incredibly inviting. It never leans too floral or too woody, making it an effortless gender-neutral choice. Perfect for intimate dinners, gallery afternoons or cosy winter celebrations, this is for the quiet tastemaker. 

Ex Nihilo Bois D’Hiver Eau De Parfum 100ml: £260; Buy It Here

Tom Ford Soleil Neige Eau De Parfum

Soleil Neige smells like the kind of holiday where the luggage is designer, the room is a chalet in the Alps and the views are spectacular. It opens with sparkling bergamot and carrot seeds oozing an icy freshness before white florals, rose and jasmine bloom at the heart. A smooth base of musk, benzoin and vanilla adds warmth. The contrast makes it beautifully gender-neutral and endlessly wearable. Perfect for winter weddings, festive soirées or mountain escapes, this is for the sophisticated jet-setter.

Tom Ford Soleil Neige Eau De Parfum 30ml: £152; Buy It Here 

Le Labo Fragrances Tonka 25 Eau De Parfum 

Not everyone wants to smell fresh and clean; some prefer a little mystery. Then Tonka 25 has understood the assignment. Warm tonka bean sits at the heart of the fragrance, layered with cedarwood, orange blossom and soft musk to create something smoky, creamy and mysterious. It wears close to the skin but leaves a lasting impression. Perfect for gallery openings, late-night dinners or everyday wear, this is for the creative intellectual who never follows the crowd.

Le Labo Tonka 25 Eau De Parfum 100ml: £238; Buy It Here 

DS & Durga I Don’t Know What Eau de Parfum

The beauty of I Don’t Know What is that it smells a little different on everyone, and that’s exactly the point. The scent is built around airy bergamot, soft vetiver and a blend of radiant aroma molecules that amplify your natural scent rather than overpower it. The result is clean, skin-like and impossible to pin down, making it one of the most effortlessly genderless fragrances around. Perfect for creative workspaces and first dates, it’s made for the understated trendsetter.

DS & Durga I Don’t Know What Eau de Parfum 100ml: £229; Buy It Here 

BDK Parfums Crème De Cuir Eau De Parfum

If “effortlessly cool” were a fragrance category, Crème de Cuir would be leading it. Opening with juicy mandarin, pineapple and grapefruit, it quickly reveals a surprisingly soft suede heart wrapped in white musk and creamy vanilla. The contrast between bright fruit and supple leather makes it feel modern and gender-neutral. This is for the effortless cool kid, who never chases trends because they’re usually ahead of them. 

BDK Parfums Crème De Cuir Eau De Parfum 100ml: £210; Buy It Here

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